The true vibration of love has nothing to do with negative emotions or lower vibrational intentions. In this way, it’s easy to recognize the feeling state of true love.
Unconditional love lifts you up. It never brings you down. If you are experiencing pain and suffering around issues of love, you are experiencing un-love. There is no need to be distressed by this. When you recognize you are experiencing un-love, you are but a heartbeat from experiencing unconditional love. All circumstances can be transformed with awareness.
Excerpt from Manifesting Your Inner Soulmate in Physical Reality By DL Zeta
& Meeting a Soulmate in Consciousness: a Guided Meditation